3 Dec 2013

the tent


It was not my finest hour. Even with my calming Sunday night ritual, Monday unveiled herself to me a little too early this week.  A pounding head and a washing mountain were desperately vying for my attention but it was a tent and the little girl carrying it that won out. Crispy grass in need of a mow, glaring sun and click together tent uprights that would simply not behave.

Much tsking and much wrangling. Then angry tears pricking my eyes and threatening to show themselves. Finally a crumpled tent thrown down in frustration and subsequent stomping off to the laundry.  A spectacular display one could only describe as a tantrum.

And when all my demons gnashed their teeth at once; the stubbornness, the temper, the "woe is me" melodrama.....the student became the teacher.  She followed me and cuddled my leg and whispered in my own words, "Take a big breath Mumma. Let's solve this problem together."

I held one side and she clicked in the other. She held the post while I tapped in the stake. And there it was - a tent, a girl and her boy, and one very humbled Mumma.

Steph x

14 comments:

  1. ah, the student teaches the teacher,

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  2. That is all kinds of wonderful... those days are the hardest (I had the headache and the tantrum today), but how wonderful to hear soothing words and feel gentle little hands, and know how well she has learned that grace from you, Mama xxx

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  3. Such a very special moment, I imagine, you'll never forget. Xxx

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  4. Perfection. You have a great girl there, Steph. x

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  5. Humbling but affirming of all that you are to her
    X

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  6. Just beautiful. My new favourite post of yours I think Steph xx

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  7. So beautiful! 1) your dear girl 2) you could receive her grace and encouragement!

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  8. Beautiful story....doesn't it make your heart swell to know that you taught her well?

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  9. I always say Tamika taught me to be a mother and along the way I learnt how to be me

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  10. Succinct, and spectacular. Thanks for sharing. Beautiful.
    Justin

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  11. that in itself is the measuring stick of knowing what a fantastic job you are doing at parenting. hands down. x

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Your words brighten my day! Thank-you so much for joining me on my adventure. x